Remember saying that?

Since you have been working on it, you have caused other Christians to not be able to be examples themselves, but making them try to 'defend' 'rationalize' 'explain' your behavior.

Remember when I said you push more people away than you ever could bring?

I go by what I said before, if God wanted to, he could open up heaven now, destroy Marilyn Manson, kill every homosexual, every Satanist or whatever. He could speak and say "Ok this is me, and this is how things are'. He doesn't. He is a God of love, and you seem to really be forgetting that. Every thing you say is filled with hypocriscy, sarcasm, judgemental and loathing. You can say all you want that is not what you mean, that is not how you are saying it, etc, but when EVERY person says something like that, you have to examine how you are going, how you are doing.

You can say you are not wrong, but in doing so, you are saying that every other person is. Guess what, you can be wrong too. Maybe your effort and attempts are wrong, or at the very least are conducted wrong. Your attempts may be done in the proper spirit but your execution leaves a lot to be desired. Peter denied Christ 3 times. Even good people can screw up.

Seriously, you need to take about 10 steps back and look at how you come off.

Like the link I posted said (which came from Christian answers for a new age by the way), without love, you come off as a clanging cymbal.